It's no mystery why intended parents want to protect and even control the surrogacy process: can anything be more important than the well-being of your future child? But some asks may go too far.
Surrogacy agreements set out the arrangements between intended parents and surrogates. We don't know much about them because they are mostly kept secret. (More about that in a future newsletter.) In the last of the September newsletters, which have all focused on surrogacy, I share with you some prohibitions and exhortations drawn from a collection of American and Canadian surrogacy agreements.
"Spotted in..." is an occasional feature where I share tidbits from documentary sources.
The Gestational Carrier agrees
no air travel during first and third trimester
no leaving the continental US
no leaving the state (without prior written consent of a doctor)
no travelling more than 100 miles from home (after week 20)
no travelling more than 100 miles from a hospital (in third trimester)
no travelling more than 30 minutes from a hospital (in third trimester)
no swimming in lakes or oceans
no riding a bike outside
no standing for long periods of time
no hair dye
no perfume around the time of embryo transfer
no routine dental cleaning (without written approval of doctor)
no moving out of state (without approval of intended parents)
no becoming involved in a sexual relationship (without notifying the intended parents)
no sex without condoms
no getting married prior to transfer, during the pregnancy, or for 10 months after the birth
agrees to be randomly tested for controlled substances at any time
agrees that any blood, urine or tissue taken from her for any reason can be used for random drug testing for any substance she's been asked not to use
agrees to waive her right to revoke her consent (for release of medical records or test results)
agrees to waive her right to a trial to resolve any dispute arising out of the agreement (binding arbitration only)
End of Life
agrees to be put on life support at IP request
agrees that IPs get to decide how long she stays on life support
agrees to stay on life support until the child is born or the pregnancy is no longer viable
agrees to have no living will that will conflict with IPs’ life support requests
agrees that the terms of this agreement will prevail over any directive or the requests of any person appointed to make health care decisions on her behalf
If you have information that you think would make people pause — about surrogacy or any other aspect of reproductive technology — get in touch with me at firstname.lastname@example.org. I do not need to identify you.
All this month I have focused on issues relating to surrogacy. If you want to review any of these pieces, go to heyreprotech.substack.com, and scroll down to go backwards in time. At the very end is a "view archive" link, which takes you to where items are listed by title and date.
Next month I will move on to stories relating to sperm. If you know anyone who was a sperm donor, needed a sperm donor, is thinking of using a sperm donor or was conceived via sperm donation -- and who you think would find the HeyReprotech newsletter interesting -- please let them know they can sign up at heyreprotech.substack.com. Over the next several weeks I will also introduce stories on topics ranging from egg donation to preimplantation genetic testing to secrecy, and I will continue to report on surrogacy.
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